[Dear MBzers] My Boyfriend Still Keeps Sextapes Of His Ex; Is He Still In Love With Her? — Barbie

Dear MBzers,

I just have to come out with this. I love my boyfriend so much and I don’t want to lose him to any woman, so I endeavour to please him with all he wants all the time… even when I am not comfortable with things I have to do to please him. And I am sure he loves me too or he behaves so well to remove every doubt about his love for me… till he—by himself—recently showed me clips of recorded videos of his ex-girlfriend making love to him!

Well, I told you that I do everything to please him, which means that I have allowed him on several occasions to record as we make love as well… videos he promised never to leak and with time delete. I was not so interested in watching myself making love, so I had never asked to see the videos… till the incessant sextape leaks starts to get viral, and I asked to see my videos with him.

Along the line, I saw some strange girl on one of the thumbnail images on the video list, and I asked who. He said it was his ex—WTF? My boyfriend keeps clips of his ex-girlfriend on his mobile device? Meaning he still watches them, and definitely still fantasizes about having sex with his ex!

Is my boyfriend still in love with his ex? Why will he still be keeping videos from his past relationship when he already has several videos from his present relationship? Am I on the brink of losing him to his ex? Or are my videos not good enough for him to delete his ex’s clips? What am I to do? I can’t access the videos in his password-guarded mobile device, so no way I am going to delete them… and is he not going to get mad and break up with me if I ever delete videos on his device? I am so confused right now… I don’t know if any woman is (or was) like me out there, please I need to know how you handle (or handled) a situation like this in your relationship. I really need help, and I hope MBzers will read and provide me with answers.

Thanks.

Barbie.

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