Uh…What
worse could happen to a man that a girl (he's been spending for) called on his
phone, “…hey dear, come to my house, there's no one at home…”, and he got there
just to find NO ONE at home?! Or a
man that got home from work just to find a naked man running in his backyard
and he asked, “…hey buddy, why are you running naked…?” only for the man to
reply, “…because you came home earlier…”?! Or a guy that a girl promised to
love for eternity and forever but eternity and forever was just a span of five
(5) days?! I guess that was why 2Face
said, “no be small thing o…”
 |
| Don't they look cool? Sorry, #PastTense |
Mikell'z Bluez is not all abt IFE's story, so imma round the ish up
today! Enough of this self-pity memory but I love it that you are catching the
humour in the dark days…
Uh…we
all know that a week is too much for someone to be explosively successful and
to run a guy like Mark Zurkerberg
down may take less than a day (don't let me analyze how facebook can crash even if I know how…); so, if a girl feels that a
week is enough duration for 'love', so be it (only that it was an all-new experience to me back then, but
I've learnt so much about this love after then)!
Remember
I told you that Ife came in while I was to go out for Kemi, eh? Well, Kemi didn't disappear from the scene just like that
(battles don't end like that— you pack dead soldiers and the war-lords come to friendly treaties
when there are no clear winners!). Even if Ife was taking charge suddenly, I thought
Kemi deserved to know that I had retreated from the battle for her heart… But
to avoid wrong thoughts from Ife (in case she saw Kemi with me), I had to tell
her about Kemi (did I do something wrong?!)…
 |
| Who is the culprit? |
Wow!!
Can I finish this story today? Let's keep going… Well, I dropped Kemi off
(which I realized later was the wrong thing to do) but Ife wouldn’t have it—
she believed I didn't love her and it was Kemi I loved (or she was using that
as an excuse to break my 'innocent' heart). No matter how I explained, I never
did enough to convince her— there were lots of begging, crying, pleading,
kneeling, repenting, purging, sanctification, redemption…uh, what was I talking
about…? Somebody should please remind me…
Okay,
I started an impromptu battle for her heart and there was no sacrifice I didn't
make (well, except for one— I will tell you, no rushing!) but it was all futile—
it seemed like the soldiers we were fighting were always coming back from dead
(or how will you illustrate a situation where you made a perfect and reasonable
point to trash out an argument but it always seemed like your adversary didn't
hear you, and he/she kept attacking you with the same argument but from
different angles…?). And you know that battles are not meant to last forever,
so I opted out (most especially when it was obvious that she was in with
another guy)!
Days
after, licking my wounds, guys started analyzing the whole situation for me and
I don’t know if you will have a different opinion (and if you do, please drop
it as comments). It all balled down to flock!
The only way I didn't prove my love to her was straffing her. Probably she thought I was straffing Kemi and I didn't want to do her too — I don’t know, but
I heard the gist from another friend years later that my 'don't-like-popo' Ife was a vicious freak (which validated
the story from my guy then #MBz04).
For those that are yet to understand all they've been reading, let me write in
layman's English: Ife crossed the thin line between love and hate just because
I didn't get down with her to confirm my love for her— do you now understand?!
 |
| Guess you can't blame me for this! |
Now,
let me take you back to #MBz02 and
you will remember I said that I have my own personal story for not really
believing in loving a woman— that was the first (and it came as my first
experience about love and relationships) and I have several others I'm going to
share with you as long as Mikell'z Bluez continues… So, the next time you call
me a playa;
or you saying that guys are cheats or guys don't love…asides the fact that you
should check yourself, you are NOT
in a position to judge me because you don't have an idea what I've been through
when it comes to WOMAN!
…Mikell’z
Bluez Continuez…
#MBz05 © 2011
No comments:
Post a Comment