[Dear MBzers] As A “Born-Again”, How Do I Stop My Masturbation? — Ted

Dear MBzers,

I am a twenty-two-year old and a 400-level student in one of the federal universities, who recently gave his life to Christ. You know what the Bible say about being in Christ and everything becoming “new”; well, everything has miraculously changed positively about my life… well, almost everything.

I started to experience pleasure in touching myself when I started calling my female friends at midnights; some years ago—you know what I’m talking about. And later, I fell in love with “mojo” on my mobile device, so much that I’ve had over 300 different adult clips on my device before. I don’t smoke and I don’t really have an inclination of alcohol, but the urge to grab my “hood” and shake the fluid out usually gets to me like a junkie who is missing his hourly shots. Sometimes, I do this thing like ten to fifteen times every day… but now as a “born-again” Christian, I want it to stop!

I have been fighting this for long; I deleted all the 200+ adult clips on my mobile device and computer, and even stopped talking to anyone at night… but just a walk into my bathroom and the sight of my soap or whenever I catch my lotion bottle in eyesight, the urge instantly burgeons like volcanic eruption. I do it, even with no videos to watch… the amount of visuals stored in my brain is enough for the imagination.

I am tired of falling back into this “sin”; it seems my brain has been rewired and all it tells my body is to have the hands do their job before I can be my normal self… I don’t know if anyone is (or was) like me out there, please I need to know how you are fighting (or you fought) this incessant urge. I really need help, and I hope MBzers will read and provide me with answers.

Thanks.

Ted.

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