[Love, Sex And Relationship] What Makes Men Fall in Love — PART 2

There’s into you, and then there’s head-over-heels gaga. These little things tip a man over that edge.

It’s a baffling question: Is there some specific moment or event that makes a guy suddenly decide “Yes, I think I love her”? Well, the answer isn’t clear-cut, but there are some general principles. “Men have certain innate needs that must be met before they truly feel connected to you,” says Paul Dobransky, MD, author of The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love. “When a guy realizes, consciously or not, that you’re ideal on all these levels, that’s when he’ll commit.” Boiled down, guys have four primal relationship desires that are sometimes sated by the tiniest of moves by you. Here, experts continue with the PART 2 (click HERE for the PART 1) of this very helpful article, so you can put these insights to use when your guy is at the brink.

[Dear MBzers] My Girlfriend Slept With Another Man; How Do I Cope With The Confession? — Ted

Dear MBzers,

Let me be quick and brief with this. There was no way I would’ve known that my girlfriend slept with another guy, if she or the guy didn’t tell me—I may not even believe a stranger who claim to have had sex with my baby—as I have really decided to ignore the fact that guys are always disturbing her because she’s just too beautiful to ignore; I trusted the strong love we share to always guide her from crossing such lines instead. But now, I am not sure if I did the right thing as she recently told me, during a private confession session, that she committed the original sin with another dude!

Tips For Making A Long Distance Relationship Work [Love, Sex And Relationship]

Long distance relationships seem to be fairly common for people meeting online via social networks, and whether you are fifty miles away or 3000 miles away, distance in a relationship is definitely a barrier. Even though having a relationship with someone not geographically near you seems impossible, it is definitely doable. Here are tips to make a long distance relationship a bit easier.

#Poem | Love And Us "A question for the gods"

When it comes to Love;

I have the right words.

When it comes to US;

I find myself lost.

Trying to define Love;

It comes long or short.

Trying to define US;

An indecipherable force…

#POEM | TRUE LOVE [#MikellzBluez Christmas Gift]

Offered out on a platter of gold

Not worthless, neither meant to be sold

Deserving committed worship

True love in a relationship…

[CRAZY ME] SAMSON And DELILAH: Craziest LOVER BOY Ever Existed

I just discovered I am not a nice guy — don’t let my visuals and audio fool you — my drama is all about removing whatever costume you have on and have my weapon of mass pleasure have you blown all over the props; and if I do not leave you lifeless when I am done, it is sure that you will be reeling away with every cell in your body shouting hallelujah. Story, eh? How about we act it and take over the whole of ‘nollywood’ with the motion picture?

Miley should just say, “Mikell, oya!!”

#POEM | I JUST KILLED A WOMAN

Deep in tears, she says:

She knows there will be a day

I will look into her face

And her heart will break…

How I so much wish

That we never had to do this

That we just have a sweet split

And be happy as our love finishes…

BARBIE TEE’s Diary | Exotic Life And Times Of Ms. WakaWaka — Vol.4

Yawning out loud … I just woke up anyway; my oga is not in the office today, so i have nothing much doing. And body need rest, I can’t kill myself; so I just put my head on my desk and before I knew it, I don doze … then it hit me when I remembered the dream I had — in fact, a bad dream — in the dream, I saw me and Johnny kissing! God forbid, I shall never have anything to do with that houseboy in my life; maybe I am getting my own reward for punishing him, but thank God it was just a dream (CLICK HERE if you want to know what I did to Johnny). Anyways my people, make we put Johnny story for one side — good riddance to bad rubbish — make we talk about the story of today.

#POEM | My Heart and You…

The moment you passed me by

My heart flew off its seat

This is a chance of a lifetime,

My mental alert instantly beeped…

I turned 180 degree to follow

For my heart was already with you

Either stolen or otherwise — I didn’t know

But running after it ultimately led to you…

#POEM ::: CONFUSION...

Clash of words and action

Complication with no explanation

Conflict of want and wish

Confusion is this…

Standing at a T-junction

Each route with desired function

Which way to go?

Which way to let go?

[THE FINAL EPISODE] #MBz21 Who Wants Me Dead? Part VIII

No, I can’t struggle with any guy over a girl; are they so scarce or I’m not good looking enough to make any girl pull off her panties? So, all I did was stare at Gizzy when he came into my lab to ‘warn me silently’ (his words) to stay away from her Jessica.

“Fresh cultists,” one of my friends chuckled as we watched Gizzy left with his boys, “still ‘shacking’ them.”

“Your ex-boyfriend is a cultist, right?” I asked as soon as I entered Jessica’s room and before she could reply, “I am not in this school to be a pussy martyr, so you will really do me plenty of favours by staying away from me, okay?” And I left her room because it was obvious on her face that she knew.

The Pussy Martyr

ANOTHER OUT-OF-THIS-WORLD [POEM] A WOMAN…

To say that women are necessary evils

You need not be primitive or civil

Either as a Queen to a King

Or an ordinary man who found a good thing…

In my system, burgeons a virus

You cannot call her a plus, neither minus

As much as she gives me sleepless nights

She stays to make my day bright…

Have you ever met a woman before?

Who is blessed with all you need and more?

But not spared of her natural confusion

Ruining your sanity with paranoia and indecision…

I hear that: You can only love a woman

And may run amok trying to understand

But not to understand what you have to love

Is there any other insanity above…?

Just like meeting a mermaid on my shore

I feel like I have never met a woman before

As sweet as the feeling is on

As much as it is poison…

How could you long for Love till you scare?

And when it comes, you pretend not to care

Even when you care, you still will not believe

Till you want to have back what you did not receive…

But I do not believe your love is to hurt

Neither are all these entirely your fault

You are just A Woman in this picture

And I only have to take you as your nature…

For Her

Mikell © 2013 My Book of Random Thoughts

CERTIFIED CLASSIC [POEM] CONFUSION

Clash of words and action

Complication with no explanation

Conflict of want and wish

Confusion is this…

Standing at a T-junction

Each route with desired function

Which way to go?

Which way to let go?

Life, itself, is confusion

Is there a smooth decision?

None without a mix of good and bad

Happy but a lace to sad

Love does not becloud

It is clear and quietly loud

But trust stands a challenge

And the straight, doubt bends…

But this is not about trust

I guess the realness shocks

Not a doubt of my love for you

But the fear that it is true…

How Confusing??

For Muna

Mikell © 2012 My Book of Random Thoughts

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POEM is a new segment on #MikellzBluez. If you are good with poetry, we receive contributions via mikellzbluez@gmail.com but we do not promise to publish all. Thanks.

[POEM] TRUE LOVE

TRUE LOVE

Offered out on a platter of gold

Not worthless, neither meant to be sold

Deserving committed worship

True love in a relationship…

Makes lovers wish it lasts for eternity

Makes observers think it ends sanity

A thing, recipients never experienced before

The sweetest, man could ever savour…

Everyman wants to experience

Even sadists are un-oblivious of its existence

Most-valuable, anyone can have in life

It gives brighter light than the sunshine…

The greatest dignity one can have

But never a thing, a sculptor can carve

Not a thing, an inventor can design

And never a paper, contractors can sign…

Comes very rare to receive

To those that knows its worth, we give

I find myself lucky even you give me not more

But withdraw not your True Love…

True dedicated to You, my Passionate Reader.

Mikell Olabiyi © 2005

My Book of Random Thoughts

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