Friday, 8 June 2012

#MBz05 - My Dark Days With Ife IV


Uh…What worse could happen to a man that a girl (he's been spending for) called on his phone, “…hey dear, come to my house, there's no one at home…”, and he got there just to find NO ONE at home?! Or a man that got home from work just to find a naked man running in his backyard and he asked, “…hey buddy, why are you running naked…?” only for the man to reply, “…because you came home earlier…”?! Or a guy that a girl promised to love for eternity and forever but eternity and forever was just a span of five (5) days?! I guess that was why 2Face said, “no be small thing o…

Don't they look cool? Sorry, #PastTense
Mikell'z Bluez is not all abt IFE's story, so imma round the ish up today! Enough of this self-pity memory but I love it that you are catching the humour in the dark days…

Uh…we all know that a week is too much for someone to be explosively successful and to run a guy like Mark Zurkerberg down may take less than a day (don't let me analyze how facebook can crash even if I know how…); so, if a girl feels that a week is enough duration for 'love', so be it (only that it was an all-new experience to me back then, but I've learnt so much about this love after then)!

Remember I told you that Ife came in while I was to go out for Kemi, eh? Well, Kemi didn't disappear from the scene just like that (battles don't end like that— you pack dead soldiers and the war-lords come to friendly treaties when there are no clear winners!). Even if Ife was taking charge suddenly, I thought Kemi deserved to know that I had retreated from the battle for her heart… But to avoid wrong thoughts from Ife (in case she saw Kemi with me), I had to tell her about Kemi (did I do something wrong?!)…
Who is the culprit?

Wow!! Can I finish this story today? Let's keep going… Well, I dropped Kemi off (which I realized later was the wrong thing to do) but Ife wouldn’t have it— she believed I didn't love her and it was Kemi I loved (or she was using that as an excuse to break my 'innocent' heart). No matter how I explained, I never did enough to convince her— there were lots of begging, crying, pleading, kneeling, repenting, purging, sanctification, redemption…uh, what was I talking about…? Somebody should please remind me…

Okay, I started an impromptu battle for her heart and there was no sacrifice I didn't make (well, except for one— I will tell you, no rushing!) but it was all futile— it seemed like the soldiers we were fighting were always coming back from dead (or how will you illustrate a situation where you made a perfect and reasonable point to trash out an argument but it always seemed like your adversary didn't hear you, and he/she kept attacking you with the same argument but from different angles…?). And you know that battles are not meant to last forever, so I opted out (most especially when it was obvious that she was in with another guy)!

Days after, licking my wounds, guys started analyzing the whole situation for me and I don’t know if you will have a different opinion (and if you do, please drop it as comments). It all balled down to flock! The only way I didn't prove my love to her was straffing her. Probably she thought I was straffing Kemi and I didn't want to do her too — I don’t know, but I heard the gist from another friend years later that my 'don't-like-popo' Ife was a vicious freak (which validated the story from my guy then #MBz04). For those that are yet to understand all they've been reading, let me write in layman's English: Ife crossed the thin line between love and hate just because I didn't get down with her to confirm my love for her— do you now understand?!
Guess you can't blame me for this!

Now, let me take you back to #MBz02 and you will remember I said that I have my own personal story for not really believing in loving a woman— that was the first (and it came as my first experience about love and relationships) and I have several others I'm going to share with you as long as Mikell'z Bluez continues… So, the next time you call me a playa; or you saying that guys are cheats or guys don't love…asides the fact that you should check yourself, you are NOT in a position to judge me because you don't have an idea what I've been through when it comes to WOMAN!


…Mikell’z Bluez Continuez…
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